Understanding A Woman's Head Games

Published: 18th May 2009
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If you've ever gone out of your way to meet a woman, you'll know that sometimes, when you ask a girl for her number, she'll give you some type of excuse NOT to give it to you.

Have you been in that position?

"Why don't you give me yours, and I'll call you instead"

"I don't give out my number"

"I lost my phone and my number is disconnected and the dog ate my homework and there was an accident..."

I think you get the picture.

But the funny thing is, later on, if you impress them enough, they will actually OFFER you their number! So why is this? Why do women play head games when you ask for their number?

Understand that women get a LOT of guys asking for their contact information. Because of this, women need to have ways of quickly filtering through and disqualifying the unacceptable candidates.

They need quick, easy ways to figure out if you're either the real deal or a wuss that gives up at the first sign of resistance.

So, here are a few things to remember:

1) Attractive women are approached all the time by men, and are constantly being asked for their number.

2) Given the above, if you got asked several times a day for your number, you'd probably make up some excuses yourself.

3) The excuses and "Why don't you give me yours" type responses weed out about 95% of the losers that have no spine and no persistence.

Whatever you do, don't be the type of guy who just gives into these lame ways women test you. If you're READY for this type of thing in advance, and you KNOW what you're going to say and do when it happens, AND you don't answer with a lame, needy response, you increase your chances of getting the number DRAMATICALLY.

So what should you do when a woman pulls this type of thing with you?


Nothing puts women in a more awkward position than when a man calls her on her lies. This is a great way to build respect and make yourself stand out from the other losers who approach her.

Saying something as simple as:

"C'mon, don't give me that. Just write it down. I promise not to call you 10 times a day."

You'll probably be surprised at the effect that these responses have. They'll allow you to power through those situations and get some results.

Look at it this way: Beautiful women get a lot of attention, and not all of it is great. They are going to be choosy, and given the choice it won't be a guy who gives up easily or just throws himself at her. She'll want self confidence and a guy who demands to be on equal footing. If he's persistent and shows good traits, he will have a better chance at getting the digits.

And that is who you want to be.

Joseph Matthews has been teaching guys how to meet women since 2004, and is widely known as an expert in the field of confidence building and dating advice. If you want to learn more about how to meet women, check out his free newsletter.

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