Pick Up Lines That Work

Published: 18th May 2009
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Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

When have you heard some of the cheesiest of pick up lines like the following...

"Nice shoes. Wanna bang?"

"Your name must be Gillet, because you're the best a man can get."

"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."

Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

However, this is not correct.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.


After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

Remember, if you do not begin a conversation, you cannot do much more.

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Good pick up lines help you do this.

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I'd miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

This is why you should know a couple of good working pick up lines. Situations like these may hinder you from being original and you need something to help you get the ball rolling.

But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you're being clever when you say this, but you're not.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why do you think this is?

Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

So to give you an example, you could say something like: "Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it's wierd for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman's perspective on this."

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:

1. Relationships 2. Astrology 3. Marriage 4. Pregnancy 5. Children

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Do you believe in astrology?" (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)

"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)

"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how you engage a woman in conversation.

At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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