Dealing With Competition From Other Guys Part 2

Published: 18th May 2009
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In part one I explained how interactions with other men usually happens, and how most men deal with it poorly.

What's the right course of action then?

The key to dealing with other men moving in on your girl is LEADERSHIP. The ability to take control of the situation in a way that is not overbearing, needy, or insecure.

Doing things as simple as...

*Befriending the guy

*Taking control of the conversation

*Being more interesting than the guy

*Make her laugh

The one thing that happens with all the above is that you obtain CONTROL of the interaction. From there, you can steer it in the direction you want.

Girls respond better to a guy who is in charge.

So even if your "competition" is better looking, younger, richer, (or whatever) than you - it doesn't matter! Because in the end, YOU'RE the one the girl will follow.

Keep in mind that the ability to build your social status, to help others have a good time, to be more fun, funny, and interesting than the next guy - these are all aspects of control.

These facets of your personality will give you the power to lead the social dynamic of any group you choose.

And when YOU are the leader, guess what?


If there is another guy around you, he's a follower. Women are drawn to the guys in charge. It's that simple!

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