Dealing With Competition From Other Guys Part 1

Published: 18th May 2009
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Competition from other men is often a crippling issue in their attempts to gain a woman's attention.

And hey, if she's attractive, it should be expected. There will be other guys trying to gain her attention as well.

And the reality is - some guys just can't HANDLE the idea of competition!

As soon as they see another guy talking to the girl they like, if he's in any way better looking than they are, they'll just GIVE UP.

Seriously. They will step aside and give the other guy all the time he needs to move in on their girl.

Or they will start acting out on their envy and insecurity, and will challenge the other guy directly.

That's far worse because it shows the girl exactly how insecure you are.

So how do you handle this?

Well, the first thing is to realize that there is NO SUCH THING as competition from other men.

This might sound strange to you, but hear me out...

You guys aren't in a race for a gold metal here. When it comes to affections of the heart, there are no true winners. It is possible for a girl to be attracted to more than one man at the same time.

So in that sense, even if a new guy shows up, you're not completely out in the cold.

Regardless, you will need to keep some of that focus on you, otherwise you won't be able to create any attraction.

I'll show you how to come out on top in this situation in part two of this article.

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